Everything that we love about Palermo. Narrow streets, beautiful colors, crumbling architecture, graffiti. OK, everything we love except the food, but that’ll come later.

Let’s start with the ugly and then go to the bad, so we can end with the good.

As there is no direct flight from New York to Palermo, we flew on Swiss Air through Zurich. We had a pretty tight layover and then our flight was maybe 30 minutes late so we just barely made our connecting flight. Sadly, though, our luggage didn’t, even though the plane sat at the gate for something close to 30 minutes before pushing back. As we were walking towards baggage claim we each got a text from Swiss Air that our bags would be on the next flight that evening and, if we would just fill out this online form, they would deliver them to our hotel. Great, we don’t even have to wait for the bags. Easy peasy, right?

Yeah, not so much. Basically we didn’t hear from them for a couple days. I’ll spare all the details but basically because Mt. Etna was stirring things up on the other side of Sicily, all the Sicilian flights were routed through Palermo and the airport was unbelievably chaotic. When we started to hear from others just how bad it was I realized the only way we were going to get those bags was to go to the airport ourselves. And I needed my bag more than I normally would; somehow I’d lost my eyeglasses on the flight to Zurich and I needed the spare pair that I’d packed.

Hordes of people desperately trying to get to security to board their flights. It was pure chaos that I somehow had to get through.

Ultimately it took me two trips to the airport to find the bags, the first being just this dystopian experience of hundreds of people crushed together in some scrum trying to get to their flights. And because it was an International airport where you go through customs before leaving the airport, the bags were behind security. After struggling with forms and police and Italian bureaucracy, I had no choice but to give up; there was no way I was getting through that mess. I decided to try the again the next morning, thinking maybe if I got there early enough it wouldn’t be so bad. Boy, was that the right call. Getting there before 8:00 AM, I breezed through security and found the bags in just a couple minutes. There were hundreds of lost bags just lined up all over the arrival hall; it’s hard to imagine that Swiss Air ever would have gotten them to us on their own.

Our hotel was beautiful, but too far from the city. And a big construction project right next to the hotel didn’t help.

OK, it was a hellish experience, and being without clothes and toiletries isn’t fun, but eventually we had everything. The next problem – The Bad – was that the hotel we’d booked was a lot further out of town than we’d thought. As in, over an hour’s walk to the historic center, and much of that through an unattractive port area. That meant every time wanted to go in for lunch or dinner or to tour around we’d spend 20 minutes on each end in the hotel shuttle or an Uber. Now, the hotel was really nice and had beautiful grounds and good food, but we’d come to Palermo, well, to see Palermo. Oh, and if you did want to just hang out at the pool with a great view of the sea – which I certainly wanted in the morning – there was a major harbor renovation project immediately adjacent to the hotel. Sometimes it was bearable, but sometimes it wasn’t.

The good news, though, is that once we got all that sorted – got the luggage, come to terms with time wasted in cars and shuttles – Palermo was great. Just wandering around the historic center with its narrow streets and gritty charm packed full of character. Graffiti everywhere, clothes hanging from second and third story balconies, scooters zooming back and forth. We visited the cathedral, a museum, and a couple interesting churches, found great places to eat, and just leaned into the start of three weeks in Southern Italy.

Mark atop the Cathedral

It’s worth emphasizing that “southern” adjective. We have long preferred the south to the north: better food and more vibrant culture. But it’s been several years since we’ve been down here, in large part because summer weather in Italy is so brutal these days. So finally here we are in late September and October and so far at least the weather has been cooperating brilliantly. Next stop, an overnight boat to Naples and a quick connection over to Capri. That should be good.

Just a normal streetscape in Palermo

Scooters and narrow streets

Speaking of colorful, narrow streets

The streets are even more colorful than I am

Eating and drinking happens out in the streets too. We stopped here for a drink before dinner and ordered a double, because Europeans pour their drinks so small. Not here, though – this was huge. We went back.

More outdoor dining

We spent time in the Cathedral, a church or two, and a couple smaller chapels

Sicily is famous for the stucco sculptures in the churches and chapels

Definitely not into minimalism

Since Sicily was the crossroads of the Mediterranean that everyone conquered at one time or another, there is a lot of variation in the art and architecture. Here the Church of St. Mary is covered in gorgeous 12th century Byzantine mosaics.

Mark was into this Jesus with … contemporary jewelry

The Palazzo Abatellis is Palermo’s premier art museum, and this Annunciata is considered the star. It was so modern looking I thought it was placed just as a counterpoint to the older stuff, but indeed it’s a 15th century Renaissance painting.

The other star of the show is a 15th century fresco, Triumph of Death. In this closeup a lot of people have been mowed down by arrows.

One more piece from the museum

And there were other joys in Palermo. I spent a few hours in the Botanical Gardens that included this massive ficus tree, named Italy’s Tree of the Year in 2023. Pretty impressive.

Not all of Palermo was this green but there were a few spots

A harbor with a lot of sailboats

The view from breakfast. If you ignored the construction noise and the distance from the city center it was a great place.

And finally, a guy selling drinks out of a mobile orange. You gotta love Palermo, right?

A wonderful visit in San Francisco with my brother John and his family: Ava, me, Jasmine, Alma, John, Jim, Nico

We usually spend July and August traveling, in order to escape the brutal New York heat and humidity. But this year we did things a bit differently because we’ve so badly wanted to spend time in Southern Italy, which is lovely in the early fall but unbearably hot in summer.

So we divided the “summer” into two pieces — July in Bali and September/October in Southern Italy.

That left us about a six-week gap in August and early September. And somehow that gap got jam-packed with domestic travel opportunities — to Delaware, Vermont, Michigan, and California — that we somehow couldn’t say no to. It’s made for a pretty crazy year (and possibly just too much travel!) but I guess that’s what we like to do.

In mid-August we did a little three-day journey to Delaware to visit our friends Dan and Lorraine at their beach cottage. Their place is in the lovely town of Lewes, just north of the much busier and more chaotic Rehoboth. Quite a few political types from Washington, DC have places in Lewes, and we really enjoy spending time with Dan and Lorraine and their super interesting friends in that community.

On previous trips to Lewes we’ve rented a car in New York and driven down, though we really hate the drive out of and back into NYC — as well as the two hours on the dense New Jersey freeways. So this time we took the Amtrak train from Penn Station to Wilmington, then rented a car for the shorter and relatively relaxing journey across Delaware to Lewes. Big improvement!

We had a lovely time on the beach with Dan & Lorraine — until a little rainstorm came out of nowhere and chased us away

Our next trip was supposed to be to Michigan to visit my parents. We got to LaGuardia airport nice and early that morning but soon got word of a 20-minute flight delay. It had the ominous tones of bigger problems, and the next few hours produced extended delays over and over, as we watched dreary clouds move into the city. At one point Jim said, “Why don’t they just cancel it?” About 60 seconds later we each got the text message that indeed the flight was just plain canceled.

American Airlines offered new flight options starting the next day, but we were unable to do anything but reschedule the trip for two weeks later, because we had a trip to Vermont in the mean time. It was really the first time in all my travels that a flight got canceled and there was simply no way to re-book anything without postponing the whole trip. But in truth, we went to Michigan two weeks later and found ourselves kind of happy to be there then and not have the whole visit already long over with!

It’s been almost a year since my mom had a stroke, which has left her bed-ridden. After several months in a hospital, a rehab hospital, and two nursing homes, we were able to get her back home with excellent full-time care. It’s so much better to see her there! And she always seems thrilled to see us when we visit.


The other thrill of visiting my parents was hanging out with the friendliest cat in the world, who just appeared out of nowhere recently

An amazing sunset just up the road from my parents’ farm

The poor kitty when everyone has gone inside!

Our Vermont visit was built around our friend and former business partner, Nathaniel, who hosts an annual bonfire at his family farm. He always has 2 or 3 dozen interesting people from various parts of his life. People have meals together, engage in various sports and entertainments, and crash on couches or in tents or cute cabins. On Saturday night there is a huge bonfire.

The accommodation options being a little rustic for me, we actually stayed in a boutique hotel in nearby Hanover, New Hampshire. We enjoyed the little glimpse of the town and the Dartmouth college campus. And we greatly enjoyed spending time with Nathaniel and his interesting and eclectic set of friends. We attended the bonfire about 16 years ago, and were glad to make it back again after all that time. After a couple days there, we then traveled to central Vermont to spend a couple days at a really posh inn called Twin Farms. The trip gave us some really nice exposure to beautiful Vermont, a state I hadn’t spent much time in.

Jim relaxes by the pond at Nathaniel’s family farm

Nathaniel is truly a Renaissance man with a very wide variety of hobbies. In recent years he has built a 7-mile long 18-hole disc golf course through the woods of the farm. It was incredible!

Nathaniel just starting the fire that a few hours later would be a massive bonfire. Note the gigantic circle of wood around the perimeter. We would be feeding that fire for hours from wood cut to make the disc golf course.

The raging fire later that evening, as the guests toss endless logs and branches in to feed it. It turns out: It’s really fun to burn things!

Wandering around the pretty Dartmouth campus

Biking near Twin Farms

Relaxing by a cozy fire at Twin Farms

Another fun way to get around the property at Twin Farms

The last trip squeezed in between Bali and Italy was to Northern California. We planned this trip a long time ago in order to attend the opening night of our friend Thea Musgraves’ opera, Mary Queen of Scots at the San Francisco Opera. A big group of friends joined Thea at the opening in London last year when the English National Opera staged the show. And now the same production was moving to San Francisco.

Since we were flying across the country we decided to add a few days outside of San Francisco someplace. Our theater producer friend Jacob has a winery in Napa Valley and also runs Hollywood & Vine, which brings Broadway stars to perform concerts there. A great singer was performing, so we got tickets and booked three days in San Francisco and three days in Napa.

Incredible redwoods at Big Sur

A couple weeks before the trip we got an apologetic email that the singer had to postpone his appearance in Napa. While a bit disappointed, we re-thought the trip and decided to go to Big Sure instead, someplace we’ve never been. Suddenly we were even more excited about the trip.

Then as we arrived at Big Sur we heard worrisome news from the San Francisco Opera. Their orchestra was on strike! They ended up working out a deal to end the strike before we got to San Francisco, but it was too late to rehearse and pull off opening night of the opera. So that got canceled, too. So our big music-driven trip to California ended up entirely music-less.

Hardly a problem. We spent three days in stunning Big Sur. We visited some friends in San Francisco. And we spent lots of great time with my brother John and his family in San Francisco. It just so happened to be the weekend of John’s block party, one of his favorite events of the year. John sets up an amazing wine bar in his driveway under a canopy of palm trees, and many of his extended family and friends gather and celebrate. It was a super fun time! Who needs to get dressed up and go to the opera anyhow?

And now that all that travel is out of the way, we’ve just arrived in Italy, so stay tuned.

Big Sur from our porch

A nice warm pool in the cool air

Can’t get enough of those redwoods

The view from the pool

Sunset in Big Sur

With Alma under their amazing canopy of palm trees over the wine bar

Having a blast at the block party — Nico, Jasmine, John, me, Jim, Ava

A delightful lunch at our hotel with Lloyd and Fiona, Australian friends we met on our cruise to Antarctica

Every now and then a friend will tell us they checked our blog for ideas before planning a trip somewhere. That might be a good idea — advice we should have followed ourselves when planning this trip!

We decided to conclude this trip with a final stay in Nusa Dua, one of just a few spots in Bali with resorts that are truly beach-oriented. But nine years ago we did the same thing — ended a long stay in Bali with a beach stop in Nusa Dua — and then wrote a blog post that was pretty unflattering to the place.

Our complaint then was that dining options outside the fancy resorts were surprisingly poor. When we travel, we invest quite a bit of time researching restaurants. And the result is that we very rarely have a meal that isn’t pretty good. We love food, and a missed opportunity for a good meal while traveling feels like a tragic loss.

It turns out things had not changed here in Nusa Dua, and we find it very odd. There is a huge tourist population here, including a lot of people staying at pretty high-end resorts. Because we’re not the only people who tire of overly fussy resort food (and resort food prices), you can usually find good quality independent restaurants in places like this. But it’s strangely just not the case here.

That leaves us with three options:

1) Eat at nice resorts. This we did plenty of because our hotel had a truly excellent restaurant, just not the kind of place we want to eat every day. Plus a neighboring resort had a somewhat more casual poolside restaurant that worked well for lunch.

2) Take a car somewhere. We don’t always love the hassle of this, but the Grab ride-sharing system here is so good and inexpensive that we did this a few times. One night we even traveled 25 minutes each way to a pretty amazing place in Jimbaran called Cuca.

3) Give the local independent restaurants another chance. Many restaurants are clustered in a Nusa Dua development called Bali Collection. It’s a really bustling place with a ton of physically attractive restaurants with indoor/outdoor seating, good lighting, and a wide variety of cuisines. One night we went to an Indonesian place with decent reviews, but we left feeling like we’d had a decidedly mediocre dinner (i.e., a failure). A couple nights later we tried a nearby “French” place we’d liked the looks of. And the food was positively terrible.

Because we have good survival skills, we managed to have a lovely time here in Nusa Dua, despite these epicurean setbacks. We stayed at a St. Regis resort, where we had a beautiful room with a lovely deck with a heated private pool and direct access to a “salt-water lagoon.” The latter turned out to be a huge, sprawling, wonderfully warm salt-water pool surrounded by incredibly lush tropical gardens. And of course there is a big wide sandy beach.

Our living room at the St. Regis

In the “lagoon” looking back at our room, with the entrance to the left and our “bale” lounge space on the right

Lounging areas along the lagoon

There was also a big fresh-water pool

Our patio and pool, with the lagoon just behind it, after a morning rainstorm came out of nowhere. It poured fiercely for a few minutes, then cleared up like nothing had ever happened.

The resort grounds just after the rain came and went

But the highlight of our stay was a visit from our Australian friends Fiona and Lloyd. We met these fun people on our 18-day cruise to Antarctica last winter. We’d discovered back then that we had similar long trips planned to Bali, just barely overlapping. So we made a point to get together just after their arrival. It was so much fun to see them that we all marveled over the fact that we’d only just met earlier THIS year.

Lloyd and Fiona are travel maniacs who retired on the young side and are determined to make the most of their adventurous spirit while they can. While they still live on the Gold Coast in Queensland, they are on the road much more than at home. We don’t often meet people who travel more than we do (Looking at you, Aunt Debbie). Makes us long for our earlier days of full-time travel, when we never had to suffer that indignity.

Thus we wrapped up a fantastic five weeks on the magical island of Bali. I write this on the plane as we approach Singapore, where we will catch a quick 18-hour flight home. We look forward to being back in New York and taking a few more trips planned for this summer and fall. But I can’t help wondering when we’ll get back to Bali.

Jim and Fiona coordinated their outfits

Despite all those bad things I said about food in Nusa Dua, this was Jim’s stunning Tasmanian salmon dish at lunch with Lloyd & Fiona

One evening we trekked by car to a wonderful Japanese place

Walking along the sandy beach back from lunch at the resort next door

The scene of our “mediocre” dinner; we didn’t bother taking any pictures at the truly awful place later on

A frangipani blossom on the lagoon

You really should not dive into our pool. That guy looks like he is in some serious trouble.

Did I mention how amazing that lagoon was?